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ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 3,962 Community Veteran
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wen ur out, why r they all friends at first and then they turn on u and really hurt u when they had a few. can they go to jail if they have children now that they've calmed down.
Crazy mad insane

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    Lucy307Lucy307 Posts: 1,171 Wise Owl
    Hi @ellie2000,

    Do you mean when you're out drinking? Do you want to share a little more on how you're feeling and we'll try help <3

    - Lucy
    Treat yourself as you would treat a good friend
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,495 Skive's The Limit
    Hey.
    Think it would depend on what you mean by “hurt”. But im not too sure, sorry.
    Hope youre okay
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 3,962 Community Veteran
    they plied me with acahol
    Crazy mad insane
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    ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 3,962 Community Veteran
    Type your commentdo flashbacks ever go away
    Crazy mad insane
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    ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 3,962 Community Veteran
    help it hpn agen but in the shower :(:(:(:(
    Crazy mad insane
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    ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 3,962 Community Veteran
    Type your commentis it coz they think im cute
    Crazy mad insane
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,495 Skive's The Limit
    How is everything now?

    Sorry to hear youre expereincing flash backs. Must be horrible:(. Have you found anyways to make them more managable?
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    peachysoopeachysoo Posts: 151 Helping Hand
    Hey Ellie2000,

    I’m sorry to hear what you’ve been experiencing; I think it’s quite clear that the events have really shaken you, and for good reason.

    Have you spoken to any trusted people about this? It might be worthwhile actually seeing your GP, as they could maybe refer you on for therapy of some sorts to help with the flashbacks. I understand how scary seeking help might seem from personal experience, but if your flashbacks worsen or don’t go away, it could be very helpful to have that professional support to help you deal with what has happened, and discuss what could be done regarding the people who caused this.

    I’m sorry I can’t be of more help, but if you ever want to talk, we’re here for you at The Mix. :)

    -peachysoo
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