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One to one chat

Former MemberFormer Member Fruit loopPosts: 2,761 Boards Guru
in General Chat
I feel really silly but when it comes to one to one chat i always feel like my problem isn't huge enough? :lol:
even when it comes to people or family i suppress my troubles because i feel like college, or any of my other problems aren't like major and people could be doing more important stuff oops :lol:

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  • JellyelephantJellyelephant Posts: 1,908 Extreme Poster
    Hi Lane,

    I just wanted to say that it is normal to wonder if you are bothering people with your problems, a lot of people feel this way. Something I like to remember is that there is always going to be someone who is "worse off" than you but that doesn't mean that your problems are not worth talking about. You would never tell someone you don't want to hear their good news because someone else has it better, so the same should apply to problems. If it is bothering you then it is important. Your friends and family care about you and would want to be there for you, I'm sure.

    Take care
    The sun will rise and we will try again 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Fruit loop Posts: 2,761 Boards Guru
    Thanks Jellyelephant! This was really nice and appreciated :) x
  • independent_independent_ Community Connector Posts: 10,126 An Original Mixlorian
    I feel that too, sand Jelly is right it's normal TL feel that x
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • independent_independent_ Community Connector Posts: 10,126 An Original Mixlorian
    And not sand
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,758 Skive's The Limit
    Hi Lane

    I think if it's even a problem for you that is a big issue. Looking back on things I thought were massive problems, i think aren't so big now. But was at the time and doesn't really matter how big or small it is. If it's a problem for you than it matters . So dont feel bad about it. If that makes sense :)
    ~Probably dead now
  • Former MemberFormer Member Fruit loop Posts: 2,761 Boards Guru
    Thanks you guys! i didn't use the chat but i did ramble for hours to someone i knew from work over a coffee and although i didn't solve my problems i do feel a heck of a lot better :) x

    Lane

    (Okay it was like 2 coffees and 1 hot chocolate rather than just 1 but still :lol: )
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