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One to one chat

LaineLaine Fruit loopGone for gooPosts: 2,767 Account Deactivated
I feel really silly but when it comes to one to one chat i always feel like my problem isn't huge enough? :lol:
even when it comes to people or family i suppress my troubles because i feel like college, or any of my other problems aren't like major and people could be doing more important stuff oops :lol:

🌈Positive thoughts🌈

"This is my family. I found it, all on my own.
It's little, and Broken, but still good. Yeah. Still good." ~ Stitch

"Lately, I've been struggling with all the simple things in my life" ~ Cian Ducrot

"I don't know if it's because my heart hurts or I'm insecure" ~ Juice Wrld

Comments

  • JellyelephantJellyelephant Bpd bitch ✌🏼 Posts: 823 Part of The Mix Family
    Hi Lane,

    I just wanted to say that it is normal to wonder if you are bothering people with your problems, a lot of people feel this way. Something I like to remember is that there is always going to be someone who is "worse off" than you but that doesn't mean that your problems are not worth talking about. You would never tell someone you don't want to hear their good news because someone else has it better, so the same should apply to problems. If it is bothering you then it is important. Your friends and family care about you and would want to be there for you, I'm sure.

    Take care
    The sun will rise and we will try again 
  • LaineLaine Fruit loop Gone for gooPosts: 2,767 Account Deactivated
    Thanks Jellyelephant! This was really nice and appreciated :) x

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈

    "This is my family. I found it, all on my own.
    It's little, and Broken, but still good. Yeah. Still good." ~ Stitch

    "Lately, I've been struggling with all the simple things in my life" ~ Cian Ducrot

    "I don't know if it's because my heart hurts or I'm insecure" ~ Juice Wrld
  • independent_independent_ Resident Coffee Addict ScotlandPosts: 7,254 Master Poster
    I feel that too, sand Jelly is right it's normal TL feel that x
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • independent_independent_ Resident Coffee Addict ScotlandPosts: 7,254 Master Poster
    And not sand
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • ShaunieShaunie Posts: 13,260 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Hi Lane

    I think if it's even a problem for you that is a big issue. Looking back on things I thought were massive problems, i think aren't so big now. But was at the time and doesn't really matter how big or small it is. If it's a problem for you than it matters . So dont feel bad about it. If that makes sense :)
  • LaineLaine Fruit loop Gone for gooPosts: 2,767 Account Deactivated
    Thanks you guys! i didn't use the chat but i did ramble for hours to someone i knew from work over a coffee and although i didn't solve my problems i do feel a heck of a lot better :) x

    Lane

    (Okay it was like 2 coffees and 1 hot chocolate rather than just 1 but still :lol: )

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈

    "This is my family. I found it, all on my own.
    It's little, and Broken, but still good. Yeah. Still good." ~ Stitch

    "Lately, I've been struggling with all the simple things in my life" ~ Cian Ducrot

    "I don't know if it's because my heart hurts or I'm insecure" ~ Juice Wrld
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