One to one chat

I feel really silly but when it comes to one to one chat i always feel like my problem isn't huge enough?

even when it comes to people or family i suppress my troubles because i feel like college, or any of my other problems aren't like major and people could be doing more important stuff oops

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Jellyelephant

Hi Lane,

I just wanted to say that it is normal to wonder if you are bothering people with your problems, a lot of people feel this way. Something I like to remember is that there is always going to be someone who is "worse off" than you but that doesn't mean that your problems are not worth talking about. You would never tell someone you don't want to hear their good news because someone else has it better, so the same should apply to problems. If it is bothering you then it is important. Your friends and family care about you and would want to be there for you, I'm sure.

Take care

Former Member

Thanks Jellyelephant! This was really nice and appreciated

independent_

I feel that too, sand Jelly is right it's normal TL feel that x

independent_

And not sand

Siena

Hi Lane

I think if it's even a problem for you that is a big issue. Looking back on things I thought were massive problems, i think aren't so big now. But was at the time and doesn't really matter how big or small it is. If it's a problem for you than it matters . So dont feel bad about it. If that makes sense

Former Member

Thanks you guys! i didn't use the chat but i did ramble for hours to someone i knew from work over a coffee and although i didn't solve my problems i do feel a heck of a lot better

x

Lane

(Okay it was like 2 coffees and 1 hot chocolate rather than just 1 but still

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