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Arguments with friends

Hi 
So i have a couple of close great friends, who are equally fantastic in both very different ways. After June we are all going to different parts of the country and the world. So we have decided to go on holiday for a friends 21st birthday in May.
I am not the most easy person to get along with and talking about money in relation with friends has become stressful.
How can i get over simple things like money and keep focused on the positives of going away with friends?
i feel like i'm causing all of the tension between the 3 of us.
Many Thanks
Turtle

So i have a couple of close great friends, who are equally fantastic in both very different ways. After June we are all going to different parts of the country and the world. So we have decided to go on holiday for a friends 21st birthday in May.
I am not the most easy person to get along with and talking about money in relation with friends has become stressful.
How can i get over simple things like money and keep focused on the positives of going away with friends?
i feel like i'm causing all of the tension between the 3 of us.
Many Thanks
Turtle

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I know i am the issue
It was an accumulation issue. But i have let it slide because it's not worth it . I am not sure how to not focus to much on small issues such as money etc. I really don't want to ruin the trip.
Have you been on holiday with them before?
The details do stress me so i could definitely do with that . Something to suggest to them
I really don't want to mess this up and no so haven't been on holiday with them before
Depending on how remote the location you're going to is, there might not be many facilities there. For example, in some rural areas, you can be miles away from a cashpoint, petrol station or supermarket.
Have you ever been on holiday with other friends?