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butterfly123 wrote: »
Make him listen - he can't avoid you forever.
sophie.. wrote: »
have you thought about asking him for coffee or something where you can talk in private? he might be feeling a bit awkward! not your fault... but might be worth clearing things up
Nerdy wrote: »
Not sure but it's been over a month now I have no issue it seems it's him with the problem
SarahR wrote: »
It sounds like things have been awkward between you and the guy at work since you kissed (I'm assuming things were pretty much OK before that?).
If it's bothering you a lot that he's being so unresponsive, it might be a good idea to approach him when he's on his own and say something like, 'Hi, I'm sensing you're not wanting to talk to me much at the moment, am I right about that?' It could be a good way to get him to open up about how he's feeling.
However, if he denies anything is wrong or doesn't want to talk about it, it might be best to put the whole thing to rest and move on. Unfortunately, we can't make other people talk to us if they don't want to. It might be better to try and talk to other colleagues or friends who do want to spend time with you and hope that the next time you're attracted to someone, they'll be happy to spend time with you and treat you with respect.
It sounds like this has been bothering you for a while now so I do hope these responses have been helpful