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Friends, what friends?
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Hi,
Here goes my first thread. Up until recently I had a handful of friends, two of which I classed as my best friends. But there has been a situation that has developed over the last year or so which really broke up the friendship group and made my girlfriend (who was part of the friendship group) look like the bad guy. Its a long story and I was the only one who really bothered to try and understand my girlfriends side of the story. Anyway I have recently made a decision to cut off from my so called two best friends because I had a moment of disappointment that made me realise they weren't the people I thought they were.
So this has left me literally without friends. In one sense its a relief that I can start a fresh with friends but its lonely and I lack anyone to talk to apart from my girlfriend. I am not saying this is a bad thing because she knows me better than anyone and I tell her everything, but friends are important to me and having none, its left me with a hole in my life that feels lonely. I suppose I'm posting this on here because it seems like a good place to let it out.
Here goes my first thread. Up until recently I had a handful of friends, two of which I classed as my best friends. But there has been a situation that has developed over the last year or so which really broke up the friendship group and made my girlfriend (who was part of the friendship group) look like the bad guy. Its a long story and I was the only one who really bothered to try and understand my girlfriends side of the story. Anyway I have recently made a decision to cut off from my so called two best friends because I had a moment of disappointment that made me realise they weren't the people I thought they were.
So this has left me literally without friends. In one sense its a relief that I can start a fresh with friends but its lonely and I lack anyone to talk to apart from my girlfriend. I am not saying this is a bad thing because she knows me better than anyone and I tell her everything, but friends are important to me and having none, its left me with a hole in my life that feels lonely. I suppose I'm posting this on here because it seems like a good place to let it out.
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