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Abortion and mental health

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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So I've left this really late and have a decision to make with a click of a finger.

I'm moving back down south to be with my mum and having the abortion there - my doctor up North has said it could worsen my mental health and I'm a little worried about that?

Has anyone got any experiences to share etc?

Thank you


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    Cat88Cat88 Posts: 377 Listening Ear
    Hi Sophie,

    Sorry to hear you're going through such a difficult time. I don't have any experience myself I'm afraid but Dealing with an abortion might be a good place to start, it has some great advice and support.

    As the page states, there are a lot of specialist post-abortion counsellors which all women are encouraged to utilise, but especially if you're worried about existing mental mealth I would encourage you to look into this and find someone/something which works for you.

    Take care of yourself most importantly, and reach out whenever you need help.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dont really know what to say sorry.Just know that we are all here behind you every step of the way :) x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's just a hard decision to make and I can't make decisions! Parents have said when I move south I will probably change my mind completely cos I won't have the stresses from living so far away from them x


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Have you discussed this with your GP? Also, if you're seeing anyone other than your GP for your mental health, I think you should talk to them about this.

    You should be able to get some counselling in relation to the abortion.

    Good luck with whatever you decide.
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    BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Posts: 3,590 Community Veteran
    i think abortion messes with anyones mental health?
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    BubblesGoesBoo wrote: »
    i think abortion messes with anyones mental health?

    I don't think that was quite what Sophie was looking for when she posted. She's shown awareness that it could make pre-existing mental illness(es) worse and that is what needs to be considered.

    Sophie, have you contacted anyone from Brook? I appreciate that you have time constraints, but try not to rush anything - if you have the time once you've moved back south, talk to a GP there or someone from family planning. Whatever you decide to you, try to make sure you have the support in place to help you to deal with stuff.

    *hug*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wasn't or haven't said they don't.


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ella! wrote: »
    I don't think that was quite what Sophie was looking for when she posted. She's shown awareness that it could make pre-existing mental illness(es) worse and that is what needs to be considered.

    Sophie, have you contacted anyone from Brook? I appreciate that you have time constraints, but try not to rush anything - if you have the time once you've moved back south, talk to a GP there or someone from family planning. Whatever you decide to you, try to make sure you have the support in place to help you to deal with stuff.

    *hug*

    Thank you Ella!

    I see my old doctor from years ago tomorrow to look at options.

    I'm phoning the mental herb team and hoping they can transfer my care down here. But will keep you all posted.

    Hug


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    They all sound like positive steps Soph.

    Depending on what you feel your decision will be, it's probably worth asking your GP if there is any support which can be put in place to support you during pregnancy, if you decide against an abortion, as well as input from the CMHT, for instance a family support worker or similar.

    *hug*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think I'm more scared of it being taken off me if I do have it. I've moved back in with family so I have there support. Could it still happen?


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think it would be fair if I tried to answer that; whilst I have experience of social services and intervention for children and families, every person and every family is different. What I do know though is that social services will not remove a child from a family unless they have firm evidence to prove the child is at risk of serious harm. If continuing with the pregnancy is even a consideration you need to voice your concerns with your GP, CMHT and other support services asap so they can do everything possible to support you.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thank you Ella xxx


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