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Found out about my boyfreind smoking weed
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My boyfreind told me today that he smokes weed I hate people smoking it. Ian in a middle of what to do I love him to bits I thought he was the one for me. I just don't like the smell of the weed. My sister and her boyfreind smokes it he now smokes it. Ian angry that I just found out and we been going out for a few weeks.
Is he hiding anything eles on me I don't know I don't really want to break up with him at all he mean the world to me I just don't have any other to ditch him going to be Horrable to tell him. I just want to tell him to stop smoking it so we can have a really good Relationship I cont tell him to stop it's his choose to. with each other I told him aswell I cont have kids he not so happy with that. I love to have kids not yet tho to young to have them. If I did have a kid with any lad I scared to catch anything of them
(please don't be nasty)
Is he hiding anything eles on me I don't know I don't really want to break up with him at all he mean the world to me I just don't have any other to ditch him going to be Horrable to tell him. I just want to tell him to stop smoking it so we can have a really good Relationship I cont tell him to stop it's his choose to. with each other I told him aswell I cont have kids he not so happy with that. I love to have kids not yet tho to young to have them. If I did have a kid with any lad I scared to catch anything of them
(please don't be nasty)
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The kids thing is a whole different issue and I really wouldn't be worrying about that at this stage of a relationship.
Don't be rude.
You've been going out with this guy for a few weeks. It's not like you're in to deep, so if you don't like the fact he smokes weed then tough, he won't stop and he shouldn't have to. So dump him. A few weeks is nothing, it's not like it's been a few years and he has purposely kept it from you the whole time. You found out early enough and if you don't like it that much then that's your choice but don't expect him to change just for you.