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I have a date
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Saturday I have a date, and I'm actual terrified.
He's told me most his family have mental health and nothing would scare him away, so I told but the small bits, and he's still wanting to meet me
I don't want to know someone that's just going to leave me in the short term, as it feels like it breaks me into a million pieces.
Any tips in keeping calm on a date? Or any tips about anything?:)
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He's told me most his family have mental health and nothing would scare him away, so I told but the small bits, and he's still wanting to meet me
I don't want to know someone that's just going to leave me in the short term, as it feels like it breaks me into a million pieces.
Any tips in keeping calm on a date? Or any tips about anything?:)
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Positive = he likes smurfs :P
I agree about focusing as much as possible on the present rather than the future. For the moment, it's just you meeting up with someone. If you have a nice time, then that's great, do it again. One date at a time, if you keep enjoying it, keep doing it. If you find you don't really click together, that's still fine - it's always better to have tried, and you always learn something.
It sounds like you've been pretty open with each already, which is a really good start
The long term is always a bit scary - if you care about someone, that always come with some risk. But you can always take things at your own pace, and you can build trust with someone over time.
Hope you have a good time
Danny
Ever seen Miranda Hart's DVD series?! ''I have a date, I have a date" as excitied and nervous as her lol
Guess so! Thanks Danny.
It seems we both have a lot in common as it is atm!
Hahaha! Laughed again then! I can imagine you as Miranda!
... I'M BACK.
You're like Miranda's double! Which, coming from me, is a compliment
Just meet up and see how it goes, I'm excited for you
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That's great
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Like he'll be texting me every 5 mins, even if I don't reply!
It's evil of me but ah. I don't know.
Boys panic me so much.
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And because of the whole past with boys. Must be why I like being single tbh
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One day you'll find a guy you like a lot, and will probably be able to get past that fear. I'm talking from experience.
Hope you're okay *hug*
I don't think I'm ready for a relationship anyway tbh
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