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Christmas is a hard time what r u doing for Christmas this year? Is there anyone else u can ring instead of crisis sorry to hear they are useless so r crisis here they need to improve it a lot.
What makes u want to kill yourself? Are there any distractions I could try?
Hugs x
I'm sorry to hear things are bad right now. You can do this if you want to enough, you've been through a lot and you can come through this.
What are you doing tomorrow? Do you have plans?
Remember we're here for you *hug*
Have you tried speaking to Samaritans? As I know how useless the crisis team are.
Would you be able to present yourself at A&E if you're feeling that low? X
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Counsellors have a duty of care however they wont tell anyone anything unless they think your in danger or a danger to somebody else. But they will try and tell you first if they are gonna contact somebody. They do care and so do we.
I know how frustrating it is with not qualifying for something cos of your age.
How would you feel bout trying online counselling again?
Keep posting we are here.
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" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
You can get through this. The fact that your still here and posting shows strength. Dont give up. We care about you.
Is there anything you want to talk about tonight? The reason why your feeling upset and panicky, maybe?
You dont deserve to die. Nobody deserves that.
Hugs.
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" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
Please remember that posting about suicide is very sensitive and could cause concern to others. We do care though, so please continue to post.
Have you tried helplines before?
What things do you enjoy doing? Interests/hobbies? Sometimes having something to focus on can help us.
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" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
Keep posting though.
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" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
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" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
Hey BrokenGirl,
I'm sorry to hear you're struggling again, would it be worth contacting emergency support, we aren't the place to offer crisis support, and having more one to one support might be more beneficial, for example, calling Samaritans or your crisis service in your area, would you like to tell us a bit about what's going on, and why you feel this way? *hug*
Best wishes,
Angel
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" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
I don't think you've said the wrong thing, Banana Monkey, but even if you had I'm not sure this is the way to try and address it. Perhaps you could do with stepping back a bit and getting some sleep tonight? It's very tiring being as carrying as you are on here.
Broken Girl, what have you used in the past to get through the bad times?
You haven't said anything wrong at all. Like you said, just a friendly reminder.
Sorry to hear you're feeling so low brokengirl. What about the questions bananamonkey asked? Have you tried any helplines? Do you have interests or hobbies?
Wont bother next time. What do you mean "carrying as you are on here"
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" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
Well I hope you get the help and support.
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" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
Typo for "caring", I don't always pay attention to Swype's interpretation of what I meant to type
Hey BrokenGirl,
Thank you for getting back to me so quickly, have you managed to call Samaritans yet? They also have a text service if you're not really up to talking, but it often takes them slightly longer to get back to you. It sounds like you have an awful lot going on for you, but it's amazing to see you still here and fighting, and getting the support you deserve.
You seem to externalizing the fact everyone hates you, this thread says otherwise, you're an amazing member of the community and liked by many users, (Including myself) we replied because we do care. It's great to see you tried to use skills by getting an early night, I'm sorry if didn't work out, do you do other stuff when you're feeling low, I often find myself doing sit up's when I'm overwhelmed at night, gosh knows why, and I'm also quite fond of Mindfulness.
Have you ever tried Mindfulness before? It's difficult when we feel as though nobody understands you, only you've been in your shoes, but it's not always about understanding, we do care and I know what it feels like when you're in position where you do feel as though nobody does really understand, do you currently get regular support at all, via the adults mental health team, etc?
And you do belong here, we all belong here, we all have a reason to be here, we just don't know what it is yet, (I've mentioned this before, but I'm sure it's to help the Llamas take over the world) You're a strong person BrokenGirl, and it's about taking one step at a time, and you've taken the first few just by reaching out on here, I'm totes proud of you!
Best wishes,
Angel
I don't really do a lot when i'm feeling low. Nothing seems to help me.
Yes I have. I couldn't really engage with it. I have been under the crisis team since coming out of hospital but I discharged myself the other day. I have such a problem with keeping engaged. Apparently that is common for people with Personality Disorders, which apparently it is likely I have one. I am usually under the CMHT and I struggle to stay engaged with them too. I have a wonderful GP but she has put up with enough from me I am meant to be seeing her tomorrow but it's probably not fair on her if I do. I can't deal with the fact i've let her down yet again.
Thank you xx