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Asking a guy out...
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So, relationships (especially starting them) are not my strong point... and well there is this guy I have met once (recently) through a friend. We have text frequently since (small distance issue) and well I think I want to ask him out for a drink or something similar.
Think is I don't know how to phrase it really, in fact some people seem to think the girl should wait for the guy to ask them but what if he is just as bad as me with things like this?!
Hmmm... ideas? It wouldn't be anything too serious as I have plans to go abroad for a while but it'd be good to see what happens.
Thoughts?
Think is I don't know how to phrase it really, in fact some people seem to think the girl should wait for the guy to ask them but what if he is just as bad as me with things like this?!
Hmmm... ideas? It wouldn't be anything too serious as I have plans to go abroad for a while but it'd be good to see what happens.
Thoughts?
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Just text him and ask him.
"Fancy meeting up for a drink sometime" would do the job :thumb:
Better way like what?
How about right now? :yes:
I do too (the few times i have done it) which is how i know if you just take the bull by the horns and ask him he will probably appreciate it!
BTW i doubt he would be texting you back and forth if he wasn't a little bit interested :d
Because right now you are probably getting on like a house on fire and you don't want him to say no/for it to get weird.
But if you ask now, you will know one way or the other when you wake up in the morning. Sound good?
Yeah I'd be bricking it in your shoes aswell. I know it's not as simple as i made it sound! But I hope you do it anyway...
Good luck :-)
And....?
Thanks for the encouragement
And my work here is done...
Enjoy :-)
If I was single/looking and a woman came on to me that way I'd be massively impressed. Obviously no guarantees I'd accept...but I would be impressed.
Hope it all goes well