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Casual sex was it me :(
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Casual sex
I've had casual sex with this guy and we've done it 3 times. Thing is the sex doesn't last that long not sure he even comes... He just says I feel good after we finish
The last time he gave me oral went to missionary for about a min then I went down on him for a min then bk to missionary
I'd say it lasted 2 mins max... And I'm wondering is it me
I've had casual sex with this guy and we've done it 3 times. Thing is the sex doesn't last that long not sure he even comes... He just says I feel good after we finish
The last time he gave me oral went to missionary for about a min then I went down on him for a min then bk to missionary
I'd say it lasted 2 mins max... And I'm wondering is it me
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I realise I could be misinterpreting it, but I hope that you're consenting to it. Would you consider asking him if he does? It's obvious that he's enjoying it as he's said so, but I'd seriously consider you're own emotions too; if neither of you were together, you wouldn't be experiencing these amazing sensations!
Would you consider asking him about everything that you do together? Why do you think that you're causing a problem or are the problem?
Thing is the way he hops off makes me feel like that
I know how it feels cos i've been there and it does make you feel pretty shitty sometimes but it helps to remind yourself of that first before you decide you cant handle it
If you don't like the aftermath of casual sex- he comes, puts his coat on and buggers off home- then don't have the casual sex. It is simple cause and effect. A casual sexual encounter is just that: casual. In terms of emotional attachment, it's nothing more than a warm vagina that he can put his willy inside. He will see you as nothing more than a fleshlight that might suck him off, and you wouldn't expect him to fall head over heels in love with a sex toy.