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Whenever i get horny and really in the mood for sex i tell my boyfriend and he ignores what i say and tells me to finish myself off really upsetting me. He's done this numerous times
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If he continues being a dick, then why is he your bf?
Sorry to hear your boyfriend's reaction to your needs
As G-Raffe says, have you mentioned this to him? Communicating could be really useful here. Perhaps there an issue there for him? Just mentioning how upsetting this is for you, and whether something is bothering him?
Perhaps his sex drive is an issue and he is not sure how to open up about it. Have a look at our article on low male libido which lists some possible causes.
Good luck, let us know how you get on