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I reckon I know the answer but....
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... Just out of curiosity, if you were going out with someone and practically all of the time you visited them they were on onemission (sex) and whilst you don't say "no" you don't play along or lead them on or do anything basically (including keeping arms and legs crossed one time), would you pick up on their mood or not? I'm beginning to feel used. I am beginning to dread visiting. I'm guessing I need to say something but surely body language plays a part? :mad:
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It is understandable that you are hoping body language will make it clear to him that something is wrong. But it seems that he is not getting it - is this something you feel you are able to talk to him about? It's clearly upsetting you, and if you feel used then this is something worth mentioning *hug*
Have a look at our article communicating as a couple for possible tips on how to approach this.
Do let us know how you get on Good luck