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I honestly don't know what to do with guys anymore!
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Okaii look i am so fuckin confused!! ive been hurt 3 times in a row recently. What is happening is this guy Brian used to be my bf then he moved but lately hes been saying he loves me still and that he misses me and that he would write me a song and i really like this guy btw! then theres Rhys he said he likes me but now he wont even talk to me and when he does he tells me to go date some random dude i told him about cuz we wont ever date and hes doesnt care so like wtf! then theres Logan he says he likes me but idk if i like him back and hes 2 years younger then me!!! so idk who to choose or wht to do helpppppppp!!!! Old Mad :mad:
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And what is wrong with someone being younger than you? I doubt you'd have a problem dating someone 2 years older than you.
And when people stop talking to you, it is often times that you bugged them too much. Maybe you should just chill out and meet new people (maybe through friends) instead of hounding after the same 2 guys who will end up "hurt"ing you. And by "hurt" I mean, that they behave pretty normal and you keep inflicting this suffering onto yourself.
Decide which one you like the most and stick to it wholeheartedly, and ignore the ones who are treating u badly.
You say that you're confused at the moment and you don't know who to choose. Do you think perhaps that the not knowing is a sign in itself? Perhaps none of these guys are really for you or maybe since Brian moved away you've been looking for something else whilst you still have feelings for him?
Only you can decide if you want to pursue something with any of these guys but think about what you really want and whether any of these guys are going to be able to give you the kind of relationship you want. As Georgina says if someone isn't treating you right then they're probably not worth your time.
Strubbles makes a good point too - why not take some time to just focus on you! Do the things you enjoy, see friends, even if it's just one week of no boy confusion it might help to clear your head and figure out what's best? Good luck, feel free to keep venting about it if it helps