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boyfriend but have feelings for another guy - help?!
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Decide who you want to be with and cut the other one loose.
I understand your dilemma. It seems that after an awful three year relationship, you took a long break and now end up with two guys you really like. At the end of the day you have only been with your boyfriend for three months and that doesnt mean you have to stay with him forever. You initially thought you had a lot more in common and, like many relationships, after a couple of months have found out maybe you don't have as much in common as you thought.
After suffering in your previous relationship, you deserve to be with someone that makes you happy and put yourself first. Follow your heart and your instinct - you will eventually know who to be with - or what to do.
Good luck
"If you love (like) two people at the same time, choose the second one, because if you really loved (liked) the first one you wouldn’t have fallen for the second."
Hope that helps, best of luck to you : )
Utter bullshit.
sorry.