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Is my Boyfriend still attracted to me?
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I've known my bf for 3 years and now in our 4th year as bf and gf.
He was always obsessed with me when we weren't dating, being ever so romantic and spontaneous to get my attention. Everyone knew he was in love with me.
Now we're finally together a year on.. I feel that perhaps I'm not as great as he thought I'd be? I feel that he loves me but there's certain times that I feel like he doesnt find me attractive or doesnt get that turned on by me.
Like just a moment ago I was on top of him messing around and 'trying' being the word to be 'seductive' whilst moving up and down on him to get his 'attention' he said 'jokingly' not in a nasty way 'Please stop doing that, that's not turning me on' or something along those lines.. i tried to laugh it off, cause apparently my face looked more like a joker than sexy seductive... but i cant help but show its got to me.
Lately i've been not wearing make up when I'm at home because I've been having break outs and thought I'd let my skin recover a little. So I feel really ugly all the time and I'm not one of those girls who is actually pretty without any make up, I'm one of those girls who looks greasy and my eyes look dark and my face looks puffy. - he says I'm beautiful still. - but all guys say that to the gf's
So really i'm just not sure of what to think? x
He was always obsessed with me when we weren't dating, being ever so romantic and spontaneous to get my attention. Everyone knew he was in love with me.
Now we're finally together a year on.. I feel that perhaps I'm not as great as he thought I'd be? I feel that he loves me but there's certain times that I feel like he doesnt find me attractive or doesnt get that turned on by me.
Like just a moment ago I was on top of him messing around and 'trying' being the word to be 'seductive' whilst moving up and down on him to get his 'attention' he said 'jokingly' not in a nasty way 'Please stop doing that, that's not turning me on' or something along those lines.. i tried to laugh it off, cause apparently my face looked more like a joker than sexy seductive... but i cant help but show its got to me.
Lately i've been not wearing make up when I'm at home because I've been having break outs and thought I'd let my skin recover a little. So I feel really ugly all the time and I'm not one of those girls who is actually pretty without any make up, I'm one of those girls who looks greasy and my eyes look dark and my face looks puffy. - he says I'm beautiful still. - but all guys say that to the gf's
So really i'm just not sure of what to think? x
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