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That adrenline rush (advice wanted)
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I'm rather young amongst most of these members (maybe). 19, turning 20 this month and I need some advice. Any would be most comforting.
I'm currently going on about a year and four months with my current girlfriend. It's just about par with my last relationship (and longest as of yet). Some people might say we rushed in, but we have a place together, As we mostly did for financial benefits since we're both going to school. Regardless it's all worked out quite well so far with only the little tiff here and there we get into.
We're my problem lies is, I'm craving that adrenaline rush of being single. I'm in no way what some would call a "man-whore" but I do my fare share of mingling when single. However I love the long lasting relationship I have. And feel it's the right thing to do to keep it stable and ever lasting. I don't find anything wrong with her aside from some insecurities and jealously issues, but I think and am hoping that will clear up in time. But yeah, maybe it's the change of season, I don't know. But I'm absolutely dying for that feeling of just going out on the market. That type of rush you get. What I'm asking is, is there anyway to supplement that feeling. Something to feed that craving? I plan on being faithful to my girlfriend regardless of urges, have no intention of cheating.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
I'm currently going on about a year and four months with my current girlfriend. It's just about par with my last relationship (and longest as of yet). Some people might say we rushed in, but we have a place together, As we mostly did for financial benefits since we're both going to school. Regardless it's all worked out quite well so far with only the little tiff here and there we get into.
We're my problem lies is, I'm craving that adrenaline rush of being single. I'm in no way what some would call a "man-whore" but I do my fare share of mingling when single. However I love the long lasting relationship I have. And feel it's the right thing to do to keep it stable and ever lasting. I don't find anything wrong with her aside from some insecurities and jealously issues, but I think and am hoping that will clear up in time. But yeah, maybe it's the change of season, I don't know. But I'm absolutely dying for that feeling of just going out on the market. That type of rush you get. What I'm asking is, is there anyway to supplement that feeling. Something to feed that craving? I plan on being faithful to my girlfriend regardless of urges, have no intention of cheating.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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We always think the grass is greener, when it rarely is.
It's only a year difference. And I'm turning 20 so she'll be 19 eventually this year. But I see what you are saying