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Should I ask my girlfriend to spank my balls?
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Ok, so I find the idea of being tied up and having my balls spanked gently with a riding crop to be highly erotic.
My question is really for the females, what would you think if you're boyfriend/husband/whatever suggested this to you? Would you be freaked out? Excited? Surprised?
My gf is pretty open minded sexually but I have been hesitant to disclose my ball busting fantasies to her....should I, or should I not?
My question is really for the females, what would you think if you're boyfriend/husband/whatever suggested this to you? Would you be freaked out? Excited? Surprised?
My gf is pretty open minded sexually but I have been hesitant to disclose my ball busting fantasies to her....should I, or should I not?
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Only one way to find out how she feels and that is to broach the subject. If you are in a loving relationship then you should be able to talk these things through with her without her freaking out, especially if she is open minded. Just make sure you let her know that she can say no if she isn't up for it.
are you really really short?
This scares me :nervous:
Is it wrong if I am also a little bit aroused?
Only if you're thinking about her popping mine, as opposed to yours.
I ain't talking about full-on ballbusting you silly little sausage, I said a gentle spanking. Have you never played sex games before?
One of my other fears for you would be that you would get deeper and deeper into it... those things have enormous psychological reactions, in other words you could end up wanting more.
Yeah, Spliffie, be careful. Today it might be a light spank on your testicles, but tomorrow you'll be wanting your girlfriend to stape gun your balls to the front of a Eurostar.
its a slippery slope
What's wrong with wanting more? 'Wanting more' does not equate with 'bad'.
You fear for me?
Thanks for the LOL
Don't fret yourself, I'm not planning any holidays to the continent.
Sweartheart, that's a rather private question.
Write me an ode to my greatness and I'll gie ye an answer.
I'd like to grind them right down to the core
Spank them and slap them until they're red raw
More he cries, more he cries- can't get enough
well, don't look at me dear, I'm not your piece of fluff.
I said an ode to my greatness, not an ode to busting my balls eh
try again sweartheart, this time write as if worshipping a demi-god
thanks for the sex talk though, you just made me get a chubby.
:cool: