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Dating a pregnant lady.....
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So hey guys! looking for some help!!!
I've been seeing a woman now for a month or so and things have gone really well, far too well thinking about it now! anyway, she's found out today that shes 2 months pregnant (obviously not mine) to her ex partner.
She's gonna keep the child and basically told me she's like to carry on seeing me if i was up to it...
now this has been a major shock to me and in fact im dead sad about the whole thing as i thought this was going really well...
so anyway, just looking for peoples thoughts, would you carry it on? would you do a runner as fast as poss?
I've been seeing a woman now for a month or so and things have gone really well, far too well thinking about it now! anyway, she's found out today that shes 2 months pregnant (obviously not mine) to her ex partner.
She's gonna keep the child and basically told me she's like to carry on seeing me if i was up to it...
now this has been a major shock to me and in fact im dead sad about the whole thing as i thought this was going really well...
so anyway, just looking for peoples thoughts, would you carry it on? would you do a runner as fast as poss?
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Why would you stop seeing her?... Just cause she slept with someone before you? Would you see her if she had kids when you first started dating?...
Personally, i'd not run away... if you have a good thing going on, why spoil it?.
as she said, it is up to you, if you don't think u can deal with a kid in the realstionship, leave, but if u reckon u can then do stick with it