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Not sure where to post this one .. really cross!
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Hi guys, you may not know but i have a daughter of nearly 4 months, and i am 7 weeks pregnant with my second (:crazyeyes yes i know i am mad!).
I was shopping today with Coco in Waitrose, minding my own business, when this lady walked past me, i was holding my daughter, but she pushed into me, i know not obviously on purpose, but instinctively as a Mother you kinda jump back sort of thing and i think i made a tutting noise.
The lady then turned around and said 'dont you fucking dare tut at me you little slut with your bastard child. You make me sick!, and you are probably buying all that food with my money!'. To say the least i am just mortified that this lady could say that sort of thing when i am holding my baby. I was more worried that Coco had to hear all those awful words more than anything .
I hate the way people just assume things about your situation. Yeah, i accidently had a baby, but i am engaged to her Father (who may i add i have been with for 5 years), we own our own house, he works, i am at studying at Uni, we pay all our bills, and don't claim ANY benifits except child benifit, which everyone is entitled to receive.
I am just so cross and upset that another human being could speak to another this way, especially when there is a little baby involved! :mad:
Why do people do it?!?
I was shopping today with Coco in Waitrose, minding my own business, when this lady walked past me, i was holding my daughter, but she pushed into me, i know not obviously on purpose, but instinctively as a Mother you kinda jump back sort of thing and i think i made a tutting noise.
The lady then turned around and said 'dont you fucking dare tut at me you little slut with your bastard child. You make me sick!, and you are probably buying all that food with my money!'. To say the least i am just mortified that this lady could say that sort of thing when i am holding my baby. I was more worried that Coco had to hear all those awful words more than anything .
I hate the way people just assume things about your situation. Yeah, i accidently had a baby, but i am engaged to her Father (who may i add i have been with for 5 years), we own our own house, he works, i am at studying at Uni, we pay all our bills, and don't claim ANY benifits except child benifit, which everyone is entitled to receive.
I am just so cross and upset that another human being could speak to another this way, especially when there is a little baby involved! :mad:
Why do people do it?!?
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I'm sure people on benefits shop at Waitrose ALL THE TIME. Just ignore her.
Most people are twats.
See? Franki is already familiar with the theory.
And at least, I'm pretty sure your baby didn't even understand one word of it
I'm pretty sure she didn't either bless her, but still. Those words around a little baby are still not nice
So just remember the importance of being happy and not ending up swearing at strangers in a poncey supermarket when you are older
Seen a woman the other day bumb into to young girls in the queue in Maccas, I heard her tut and say 'stupid girls', straight away I jumped in with 'why your the one who's not looking where your fucking going', older people love to pick on younger people especially older jumped up women. Tell em to get fucked next time.
I hate people like that. Always old cunts aswell. Fuck em. Who cares what some jumped up twat thinks.