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Salery sex
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After just Reading an article about mismatched sex drives in a relationship it just made me feel like I am a freak. I'm not a deviant but is it wrong to want ... Sorry need sex more than once a month? The article I just read said that there should be no pestering and making the other person feel good. I kind of took this as a given and have been making a concerted effort to make a better effort in the place that needed it most. Suprisingly this was house work, but after a while of doing my share and trying to equal the burden with no difference I start to think what's the point? It's as though I'm in a fucking nightmare I find myself increasingly looking at other women which I shouldn't do as I'm concious of my partners self esteem but I can't help it. Am I a scum bag deviant fiend for wanting the second most natural thing next to breathing more often or should I just accept my losses and be confined to salary sex?
I hope this doesn't sound pathetic and I'm whining which is how it sounds to me when I think about it I'm just in need of advice/answers on if my situation is normal.
P.s. Sorry for the grammar I'm writing this on my phone.
I hope this doesn't sound pathetic and I'm whining which is how it sounds to me when I think about it I'm just in need of advice/answers on if my situation is normal.
P.s. Sorry for the grammar I'm writing this on my phone.
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What kind of advice are you after? How to make you partner want you more? I'm a little unclear.
Is the sex you have good when you do have it?
if my boyfriend lived with me i would have sex pretty much twice or three times a day...
Can you live with that?
Although sex is not the be all and end all if its important to you you need to talk to her.
Sometimes people just arent compatible sexually
You can't have a strong relationship without balanced sex drives. That's a fact. If your sex drives are not compatible then you might need to accept that you're not compatible as a couple.
Give and take is the key, I feel. Although I agree that once a month is ridiculous. Once a week is even a little low depending on how often you see her. We're having it maybe twice or three times a week these days depending on how often we're together. I know we used to be rampant but I wouldn't say we're above average even now.
Thanks for all the replies guys I have a few points to think about.