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Please help!! I cannot cum during vaginal sex!!
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Hello,
I am 19 years old and I had sex for the first time on this last New year's, we had sex a couple times through the next few days and I could NOT cum during sex. She was definitely hot and I thought it was because I was drunk but being sober did not change anything..
A few days later, I had sex with another girl and also, I could not cum!! she was a much better fuck than the last girl and still nothing :banghead: .. she then gave me head/jacked me off and I cummed pretty fast... (also, when i masturbate, I can make myself cum in seconds if I really want to)
To this day, I had sex with 3 other girls including my girlfriend now and I am frustrated with this 'problem'.. my gf doesn't care too much but feels kind of bad, I dont wan't this to be an issue for the future so I need some help!!
Why can't I cum?? and what can I do to fix it!!??
Also, as a virgin I jacked off alot, probably once a day, sometimes twice and now probably once every 1 or 2 days, I tried not jacking off for about a week and then having sex and nothing!! (without a condom)
It feels good, I get the sensation, I feel like im into it but it doesnt wan't to finish, it just stays at that point!!!!
I believe it's because I jack/(ed) off too much, does anyone know(possibly from experience or reading somewhere) if this is reversable?:nervous: so I can have sex like a normal person and climax!! I won't jack off for the rest of my life if I have to(as long as I have a girl to fuck lol)
I drink sometimes not that often, im not on any medication or drugs
I smoke marijuana every once in a while ( once every month or 2)
Any info is greatly appreciated!!
I am 19 years old and I had sex for the first time on this last New year's, we had sex a couple times through the next few days and I could NOT cum during sex. She was definitely hot and I thought it was because I was drunk but being sober did not change anything..
A few days later, I had sex with another girl and also, I could not cum!! she was a much better fuck than the last girl and still nothing :banghead: .. she then gave me head/jacked me off and I cummed pretty fast... (also, when i masturbate, I can make myself cum in seconds if I really want to)
To this day, I had sex with 3 other girls including my girlfriend now and I am frustrated with this 'problem'.. my gf doesn't care too much but feels kind of bad, I dont wan't this to be an issue for the future so I need some help!!
Why can't I cum?? and what can I do to fix it!!??
Also, as a virgin I jacked off alot, probably once a day, sometimes twice and now probably once every 1 or 2 days, I tried not jacking off for about a week and then having sex and nothing!! (without a condom)
It feels good, I get the sensation, I feel like im into it but it doesnt wan't to finish, it just stays at that point!!!!
I believe it's because I jack/(ed) off too much, does anyone know(possibly from experience or reading somewhere) if this is reversable?:nervous: so I can have sex like a normal person and climax!! I won't jack off for the rest of my life if I have to(as long as I have a girl to fuck lol)
I drink sometimes not that often, im not on any medication or drugs
I smoke marijuana every once in a while ( once every month or 2)
Any info is greatly appreciated!!
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I promised myself I will never jack off again until I cum during sex
does that seem like a good idea or should I just cut down? what do you guys think?
I will see my girlfriend in about 10 or 11 days from now b/c we live in different towns since we on summer vacation from our university
so what do you guys recommend?
Everytime I have sex with my girlfriend, I just can not seem to cum until I tend to myself as it where.
She has gone on holiday for a week and has asked me to not touch myself for that week so when she gets back we can re-try again :thumb:
Its making her feel bad about herself and I keep telling her its not her its just one of those thing but to put your mind at ease you are not alone .