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wants it like a pornstar
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Hey all....30/f been with my man for about a year now. the sex has always been awesome, best ever...now hes asking me to spice it up. he loves porn and there really isnt much we havent done!!! so i guess im confused on what to do next. I feel likeweve done it all, but hes asking for more. I wanna blow his mind.Any and all advice would be fantastic!:banghead:
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he tells me that if he has to tell me what to do to turn him on that it makes him feel like its forced and loses its effect. wants me to take iniative and come up with these ideas on my own. Hence, i logged on to internet for help an ended up on this site. :chin: Any other advice? Anyone? thank you skive...:)
i agree with that completely.
as for spicing it up, without knowing what you've already done, its hard to say what else you could try. but personally, i doing it outside in various locations.
In all honesty...watch porn. You will get some of your best ideas there. Find something that you think is interesting that your bf might like and do it to him. Don't tell him about it, make him receive it, dominate him!
Be spontaneous
Do it when you are not suppose to
Have fun
Communicate, ask him what his fantasy is
Use toys
Try waking him up with a bj, I don't know I'm just throwing things out there now. You gotta get creative with this, not all guys are the same (but somehow we are always thinking about the same thing).
Good luck
There is a huge amount of sex positions and mostly we try just a few of them. Try to experiment with those positions that you have never tried before ... sorta kama sutra ???
Thank you very much for all the advice, but what do you mean by "make him receive it" exactly?
Basically dont give him a choice. Dont let him back out or do something else, make sure he gets it one way or another
But try and do it without raping him!