wants it like a pornstar

Former Member

Hey all....30/f been with my man for about a year now. the sex has always been awesome, best ever...now hes asking me to spice it up. he loves porn and there really isnt much we havent done!!! so i guess im confused on what to do next. I feel likeweve done it all, but hes asking for more. I wanna blow his mind.Any and all advice would be fantastic!:banghead:

Skive

Talk to each other and find oput what you both want to do.

Former Member

done that

he tells me that if he has to tell me what to do to turn him on that it makes him feel like its forced and loses its effect. wants me to take iniative and come up with these ideas on my own. Hence, i logged on to internet for help an ended up on this site. :chin: Any other advice? Anyone? thank you skive...:)

Former Member

if he has to tell me what to do to turn him on that it makes him feel like its forced and loses its effect

i agree with that completely.

as for spicing it up, without knowing what you've already done, its hard to say what else you could try. but personally, i doing it outside in various locations.

Former Member

I think what he might be referring to is initiating the sex. It's a lot hotter to a guy when the girl starts it, and the guy has to do nothing but sit back and enjoy. Of course it's his turn to do you next

In all honesty...watch porn. You will get some of your best ideas there. Find something that you think is interesting that your bf might like and do it to him. Don't tell him about it, make him receive it, dominate him!

Be spontaneous

Do it when you are not suppose to

Have fun

Communicate, ask him what his fantasy is

Use toys

Try waking him up with a bj, I don't know I'm just throwing things out there now. You gotta get creative with this, not all guys are the same (but somehow we are always thinking about the same thing).

Good luck

Former Member

Try new sex positions

There is a huge amount of sex positions and mostly we try just a few of them. Try to experiment with those positions that you have never tried before ... sorta kama sutra ???

Former Member

depends on his likes. Maybe get your hamster involved, or pee, or traffic cone sized butt plugs.

Former Member

make him receive it?

Teh NutsaQ wrote: »

I think what he might be referring to is initiating the sex. It's a lot hotter to a guy when the girl starts it, and the guy has to do nothing but sit back and enjoy. Of course it's his turn to do you next

In all honesty...watch porn. You will get some of your best ideas there. Find something that you think is interesting that your bf might like and do it to him. Don't tell him about it, make him receive it, dominate him!

Be spontaneous

Do it when you are not suppose to

Have fun

Communicate, ask him what his fantasy is

Use toys

Try waking him up with a bj, I don't know I'm just throwing things out there now. You gotta get creative with this, not all guys are the same (but somehow we are always thinking about the same thing).

Good luck

Thank you very much for all the advice, but what do you mean by "make him receive it" exactly?

Former Member

dreamer79 wrote: »

Thank you very much for all the advice, but what do you mean by "make him receive it" exactly?

Basically dont give him a choice. Dont let him back out or do something else, make sure he gets it one way or another

Former Member

My bf always loves it when I'm nakes (or semi-naked) outside. Letting him play with my pussy in public always gets a reaction frmo him and we usually have quite a hot time after that (and now it's coming up to cummer again, actually having sex outside and letting him cum over me or in me so it drips out later is something he really loves).

Former Member

Thank you to all of you who posted with serious answers! :thumb:

Former Member

Have you done anal?

Former Member

Lexi99 wrote: »

Basically dont give him a choice. Dont let him back out or do something else, make sure he gets it one way or another

But try and do it without raping him!