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Sex with a friend
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Had sex with a girl who was just my friend. Now i regret cause our relationships stopped. We just couldn't continue our friendship after that case but were not going to be lovers too. Am i alone in such situation?
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It's an old topic, but I guess this is more common than the other way round.
Hope you like it here.
I guess though everyones different. It sounds like maybe you both need to talk to each other?
Do you know what you want?
Does she know what she wants?
How close are you?
Talk about it.
If you want to try to fix things, sit down and talk frankly with each other about it. It might be uncomfortable but at the end, you'll both know where you stand. If you have to walk away, it might be painful, but it'll be for the best and there won't be unanswered questions and things left unsaid floating around you.
Is it just me, or does everyone on the forum (other than myself) have some sort of history?
Then I can come on here and talk about you.
:wave:
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Fine. Done. Edited.
You want to say "that's all there is to it" when you can't be in the same room as me or talk to me other than on a public forum? Fine.
It seems whatever I do or say just puts more and more pressure on you, so I'm just gonna not say anything about anything to anyone anymore. You're my friend and I miss you, a lot. I've apologised for everything I've done/said that was unfair, and let you know how I really felt. I hope that one day soon things are alright again, and that random thread interactions on this forum aren't going to be the limit.
And yes, the sex was good.