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how to get someone to notice you
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hey all
as you can probaly guess,
i've pretty much gone and got myself in a bit of a pickle (wtf, y did i write that, never even said that before) realstionship wise
nothing bad like cheating or anything but still pretty hard to deal with
anyway, instead of rabbling on for agggeees, i'm gonna get to the point
i've fallen for a girl at college, we've meet once, the thing is, i know that this could just be a crush but i really don't think it is, i;ve seen her around college and we've smiled at each other, not stoped to talk though
i just can't get her out my head, she's friends with one of my friends so i may see if he can set me up with her, though she may think its a bit werid if i do that
i just have no idea how to get her attention as it were, i really really like her and actually think that i may be able to be myself in a realstionship with her (i no i've only met her once, but the things that people have said her have given me this impression), which is a pretty rare thing for me
anyway, any way to try and get her to notice me would be great
(nothing cheesey though)
as you can probaly guess,
i've pretty much gone and got myself in a bit of a pickle (wtf, y did i write that, never even said that before) realstionship wise
nothing bad like cheating or anything but still pretty hard to deal with
anyway, instead of rabbling on for agggeees, i'm gonna get to the point
i've fallen for a girl at college, we've meet once, the thing is, i know that this could just be a crush but i really don't think it is, i;ve seen her around college and we've smiled at each other, not stoped to talk though
i just can't get her out my head, she's friends with one of my friends so i may see if he can set me up with her, though she may think its a bit werid if i do that
i just have no idea how to get her attention as it were, i really really like her and actually think that i may be able to be myself in a realstionship with her (i no i've only met her once, but the things that people have said her have given me this impression), which is a pretty rare thing for me
anyway, any way to try and get her to notice me would be great
(nothing cheesey though)
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Or as Simba said, next time you see her say hi, and maybe a 'how are you?'
If you build this up in your head too much it'll amount to fuck all because you'll talk yourself out of it or rush in and fuck it up.
As Simba T Lion said, next time you see her smile and give her 'hi'. You might end up having 2-5mins convo about bullshit but try keep eye contact and maybe work in your mates name so that you've got something to fall back on. The key would be to show interest in her and hopefully she'll respond and you'll be moving up that relationship ladder
I mean the chances are if she smiling at you then she at least likes you on some level. (trouble with birds is they're often always smiling and shit so you can read too much into it) :crazyeyes
Anyway give it ago see what happens!
I know how frustrating it is mate i'm shit at the pre-relationship ladder...slowly, slowly catchy monkey and you'll land your foot on the first step.
That's what I'd do, anyway.
i know its not that easy but just give it a go