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Go go go! You have to go through the pufferfish to get to the sharks, as it were..
there is someone i'm talking to who i'm getting on really really well with, but he unfortunatly share exactly the same name as an ex of mine. its a very common name, but still ARGH! and he also lives in plymouth...plymouth-london...=ages!
he's still in a maybe pile purely for those 2 points...otherwise there would be no contest.
tbh i found the best of my relationships including Lolz when I wasn't looking, if your looking you grade everything and worry and think to much, imo you need to relax, stop looking and just go with the flow, you need to stop thinking to much, remember dating is hardly logical
How come people always say this about stop looking, yet it never seems to work?
Yay! Dolphin!
i'm just so used to having shit, i just get worried everytime i have someone/thing good turn up in my life, no matter what it is, i just seem to think its going to quickly change...
i need to get this idea out of my head
tbh it worked with me, i had come out of two messy relationships and was not looking for anything when I met lolzabeth, now we are getting married and have a son.
I envy you.
Congrats and all that... But seriously... it doesn't usually work like magic. :grump:
I met my current boyfriend too when I decided that I never ever ever in my life wanted to see another boy again cause they all really treated me like shit. But then I met my boyfriend and I was like, "Oh. I've changed my mind now."
It's only 3 hours on the train.
*agrees with Hellfire*
Its utter bollocks. If it works it doe and if it doesn't then oh well!
3 hours on a train is better than 3 hours on a plane and the travel either side of the that....plus it would be an great excuse to get out of london for a weekend...
yes, him being down there does have its draw backs, but, it also really has a lot of advantages too. but me not looking really doesn't work because then i let my guard down.
something along the lines of a perma grin is now situated on my face...:D
YEAH! DOLPHIN! :hyper:
Remember:
Heart. Sleeve. Heart. Sleeve. Heart. Sleeve. Heart. Sleeve. Heart. Sleeve.
but things were said last night, and i think we're both pretty happy with the current situation.
Yay! I'm excited for you!
i've just been told that he's seen the future and we aren't meant to be!
a load of crap. he's just been something he doesn't like of me and has now decided to bolt.
I'm now kinda put off online dating, tbh, dating at all...
yes, i should have remained less involved and such....I can't seem to stop myself though...
i feel owchy
oh well :crying:
Urgh, that's pretty gash. Yr dolphin is out there somewhere, trust me!
i've had so many let downs i don't think there is any point even going on dates. It might be best to just push romantic notions away if they come a knocking. I've been hurt too many times, and i've got not confidence left in me to do anything....
Nooo! You've got to keep trying! Or at least if you decide to stop actively looking for something at the moment just wait until some lovely dolphin comes swimming your way. I know how you feel. And I know it's going to sound really annoying for you again to hear this, but I'd give up on men altogether when I met my current bf. I'd been hurt waay too many times and I was so scared of going into a horrible relationship again but there was something about my bf that told me that it wouldn't happen again. Two and a half years later, it still hasn't!
Hmm...maybe not so much. I was one of the unlucky people until I struck lucky. It'll happen for you.