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Yeh i will be myself but people always say ''oh the one will turn up'' but how can u be so sure u hear about people commiting suicide over lonliness i have a feeling that that could be me aswell -.-
Even if you don't meet the girl of your dreams, it's spending time with other people and you may even expand your social circle.
Is there maybe any chance of getting a group of people from work to go out one night to the cinema or bowling and get them to maybe invite some of their friends from outside work? Lots of people meet partners though a friend, work colleague or social group.
i know love doesnt come free yno i gotta work but im only 16 so..ill wait i guess
Im 22 and the longest relationship iv had was 6 months! and even that was rocky. I thought exactly the same when i was your age. I thought everything was love and the break-up i had made me think i would be lonely forever. Yes i havent had a long relationship but i have had fun with girls over the years.
Im currently dating a girl who i went out with when i was 13!! things couldn be going better. So anything really can happen! Im starting to see that it was never worth worrying about finding someone because now im realising that it would take a very short time to get settled down.
Enjoy your youth buddy
Total opposite then my first ever GF lasted 2 years n it was 99% over msn haha! i was a total saddo!
then my 2nd one who had recently in my school..=/
so..tbh all i want in life is to be with someone who feels the same as i will for them.
At your age you should just think about education and finding a good job. If someone comes along then great. Just be yourself and have fun. The only girl worth having is the one who likes you when you are yourself.
stuff like that
I know everyone is different but even generalised tips are good.
How much do girls like guys to contact them?
maybe like once a day? depends how well you know her though....
Ive never done that and dont plan to im not a total idiot :P its just the getting the girl part which is trouble for me
That's nice! well I'm in a new relationship so don't know her that well. We have shared a lot of intimacy though and a lot of things have been said. Is it a bad sign if she doesn't contact me for 2-3 days?
Im trying to get a bit better at reading signs lol so i dont contect her too much or too little. The other day she didn't text back till late and said sorry i have been reading a book??? Im just trying to figure out if she likes a lot of contact or little contact?
I'm hoping to find a girl in college that id go out with.. HOPING
If i do then id probly talk to her everyday if i can or whatever
also ive noticed my ex has been upset lately..well she never looks happy when ive looked over which is rare, she's ment to be happy that she left me? wtf? lol does it mean anything
Don't Change For Her, Be Yourself and She Should Like You For That
Good Luck xx
Depends on the woman.
We all have qualities which somebody deems attractive. You'll find the right person if you just be you.
No stress, no time limit.
Live your life, flirt and have fun.
because your best friend would surely be all you want because you get on well and their nice to you and so on... but they don't click romantically for you (well not all the time)
for me the irresistible traits in a man are as follows..
-Sensitive (but not all the time!)
-Good looking
-Caring
-Deep
-Protective (but not paranoid)
hey I don't know why im typing this, just go out and meet a girl, if you feel you need some extra confidence go and splash out on a new wadrobe/haircut etc.. look sexy and go talk to a nice girl and just be yourself! :flirt:
From my experience girls want characteristics from a guy that ranges from all over the spectrum.
These are examples from my life
I have met young girls in clubs that adored everything that I did and said until I told them I wanted to study psychology and they said "oh you are deep and meangingful" and then ignored me for the rest of the night. So they wanted more of a shallow guy.
I went to a buddhist monastery for a holiday and had some of the deepest conversations of my life with some of the hottest girls I have ever met and they latched on to me like anything. (I must admit I didn't expect hot girls before I went)
I have met hippy chicks who don't give a shit about material possessions and would be happier lying naked with you in some secluded part of a forest with no possessions rather then some pent house suite covered in jewelry.
Some times I meet a hot girl that I remember from school and her partner is anything but though she loves him more then any other jock she dated before because his nice and treats her right.
Some of my friends used to like the bad boys until they spent all their money on drugs or cheat on them and then they learnt. Now they hate the bad boys and only go for the nice ones. Though in saying that some don't learn and get hurt constantly.
Some times a hot girl will hit on me and then sometimes I can't get a lot less attractive girl to even look at me.
Some girls I know will go for anything that's breathing.
So my point is you can't know what girls want cause what one wants there is another that wants the exact opposite.
Oh almost forget the biggest thing I learnt if you want a girlfriend is to barge through a lot of rejection. You normally get rejected about 90% of the time (applies even to my hot male friends) before you will find a girl that wants you. So keep trying relentlessly and you will eventually get a girl it's practically guarenteed. Good luck mate.
sweet, im not the dude to go round askin every lass out ill try pick up some signs :P?
I have a friend that is always complaining about how he is horrible with women. I give him advice through one simple word; "Go". If you just sit around and never take any initiative they aren't going to be interested. You have to show them that you can be aggressive when you need to be; the first example of this is the approach. In the first two minutes of meeting you the girl is going to decide if she is interested in you. I feel like the key to actually gaining interest is to show them that you are confident. It helps to have the ability to carry a conversation and be well groomed.
Hope this helps.