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Girls i need your advice
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I'm thinking about getting my first vibrator but i dont know what to get and how much i wana spend.
What age were you when you got your first 1?
I'm really bored with what i do and wana spice things up.
Will it work?
What age were you when you got your first 1?
I'm really bored with what i do and wana spice things up.
Will it work?
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Then you can experiment and see if it's something you enjoy, but you havent wasted money if you dont.
I dont know if you are able to order things online but if you can i would reccomend you get this vibrator or something similar: http://www.naturalinstinct.co.uk/questionnaire.aspx on that item on that site you only have to pay £3.50 postage. www.lovehoney.co.uk is a very good site with similar items and plenty to browse through.
If you need to get it off the high street the best thing to do is to have a look around ann summers, you'll be paying a bit more though and have less choice.
a little bullet vibe would be your best bet, and i'd suggest lovehoney, its where i tend to get most of my stuff from...
Woohoo for bank accounts with debit cards...
I got the cheap one of the link i posted, actually on 1983's recommendation :P and then very quickly got something a little more advanced from lovehoney and now have a small collection, all from there.
Will it work? They dont do something for everyone, one lady on here has commented she doesn't enjoy them at all, it's like having sex with an electric toothbrush... whereas i know many women who very much enjoy them, including myself. :P
best way to find out is to give it a go.
Just a small one thats easy to hide.
But is it true you can lose your verginity to a dildo?
I heard that if you never had sex but used a dildo, If you died and they did an autopsy on you then it would show up as losing your virginity.
True?
In response to the second Q - They wouldnt even check!
I guess you're talking about breaking your hymen? Well that would more than likely happen with fingering or even gymnastics or even horse riding and I dont think that would count as losing you virginity to a horse
My boyfriend doesnt want me to get a dildo because i can lose my virginity to it before i have sex with him.
We were gonna try anal but i was way too tight.
From what i see adults seem to try scare kids out of doing it.
i suppose its good but its not as bad as they say.
I do know the dangers of having sex and i'm well aware of most of the problems.
I'm not so scared.
I'm just proud that weve managed to wait.
Weve been together over a year and are sexually active doing foreplay and stuff for about a year but we havent had sex.
Hopefully i can wait abit longer but its still compicated.
we both want it but i often change my mind a week before we do it and he gets anoyed.
Once we were gonna do it and he had the condom on and he lost his boner.
It wouldnt come back so we never do it.
I promised him we would but i dont know if i want to.
What should i say.
He gets upset and thinks i dont trust him.
Just tell him that you're not ready yet, don't let him pressure you. Let him know when you're 100% sure, there's no rush.
Then some thing comes up and i get scared.
At the moment i dont trust him.
We broke up for two months and i compleatly broke him so he tried to kill himself and ended up in hospital.
We got back together 2 or 3 months ago and i'm so paranoid that hes with me to fuck me over because of what i did to him.
One day hes really nice to me and the next he changes and doesnt talk to me.
See why i change my mind?
I love him. But i dont trust him. Thats why i get freaked out about sex.
only recently got a pink vibrating dildo... and its amazing because I showed my boyfriend and he told me to use it infront of him and he got turned on really bad and took over and put it in me whilst he licked my clit whilst I was giving him felatio... it's kinda awesome.
Plus I'm the kinda girl who gets more Orgasms out of playing with my clit but my vagina still gets 'hungry' at the same time so when mastubating its nice to have something in there whilst rubbing my clit.. gives for good orgasms!