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Anyone know of a good way of getting past the feeling of being dumped that does not involve alcohol, drugs or prostitutes?
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Do things you enjoy and surround yourself with your mates.
Weren't you the happiest relationship-man just a week ago?
alcohol is just fine for the initial moment. I know it's not sensible, but heyho, you ain't 16 and probably won't have an addition or a hospitalization.
Don't drink alone tho, it makes it worse. Go out with friends.
Yeah that was before she told me she has plans to travelling around the world for 15 months doing wrestling - get any images of female wrestlers out of your mind, she's 5'4" and seven and a half stone.
It would have been nice if she'd told me about this before we got together. I freaked out when she told me about going away (not physically freaked out, or violent or anything - just panic), I tried to see if there was any way I could persuade her otherwise (if is was for a few months then I'd accept it but for over a year?!) then she went off on one, accusing me of trying to change her etc.
I hope I'm not making her out to be a nutter, she really isn't.
just let it all out...
cry, eat ben and jerry's, watch some DVDs and have a good sleep...
take each day as it comes, and try to be positive. buy some books, read, give yourself a new goal in life maybe...?
Sorry to hear it, Glenn. Can you not throw caution to the wind and go with her?
Anyways, sorry to hear that. Such an abrupt dump is much worse then the creeping decay of a dysfunctional relationship. Never sit around doing nothing. Go away from the computer, go skiing, meet friends, read a book. Surround yourself by happy things and people. Don't do that whole crying-out-at-someones-shoulder-thing, at least not constantly, stop wailing over it, it never helps.
I was thinking that too.
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Best thing to do is try and take an interest in someone else. Go out on the piss with your mates and try to meet new ladies. It'll help for now, but ultimately only time will heal it.
sorry to hear about it though, sounds shitty