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How to get past that first stage (texting)
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Hey all,
Not very often i post here anymore but could use some advice..
Now im alright at getting girls numbers on nights out, can normally get one or two per night without even really trying, im rubbish at going past that stage though and here's where i could use that help.
The first text the next day I'm ok with, just your average, "hi, you met me last night, how're you? did you have a good night? x" text - normally get a response along the lines of "Hey, yea it was really good how was your night? x"
.......Then i have absolutely no idea what to send back! and this is where i balls it up by either coming on too strong or being too friendly that it just dwindles into nothing.
A girl i met last night though seemed really nice (and she was effing hawt as well ) so i dont want to screw this one up this time. What can i send in that second text?
Not very often i post here anymore but could use some advice..
Now im alright at getting girls numbers on nights out, can normally get one or two per night without even really trying, im rubbish at going past that stage though and here's where i could use that help.
The first text the next day I'm ok with, just your average, "hi, you met me last night, how're you? did you have a good night? x" text - normally get a response along the lines of "Hey, yea it was really good how was your night? x"
.......Then i have absolutely no idea what to send back! and this is where i balls it up by either coming on too strong or being too friendly that it just dwindles into nothing.
A girl i met last night though seemed really nice (and she was effing hawt as well ) so i dont want to screw this one up this time. What can i send in that second text?
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Always end with a question that way she as to reply and you can keep the conversation going.
Not sure if that helps or not but if I was on the receiving end of texts like that from a bloke I'd given my number to then I don't think I'd take that as them coming on too strong
Just get to know her a bit more via texts and slip in casually if she's repeating the performance of last night at the weekend. And if she is, try to arrange to meet up for a quick drink in the midst of it, get a natter then get summat sorted there and then.
Job done!
Same hymn sheet! :thumb:
I suppose keep the conversation going by asking the normal type of things. Ask if you can speak to her? Did she show any interest in you from the first text?
Haha, yeah - you just put it a lot better than me!
Good luck with it