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might seem like a stupid question but, is giving a girl a genuine compliment a good way to get a conversation up and running without making it awkward? this question mainly applies to talking to girls id find attractive etc etc.
seriously any help is appreciated - i need all the help i can get
seriously any help is appreciated - i need all the help i can get
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yea, some think you are lying to get on their better side. Be scarce with the compliments when you hardly know her. There is a smarmy-meter however regarding compliments. I guess you can drop one very low on the smarmy-meter, but dunno how far this gets you.
Its a fine line, and if its something you have to think about, then it wont come naturally and its really hard to say whether you should or shouldnt because it would vary according to each and every individual circumstance
What im saying, is its an impossible question like any "do guys like this" or "do girls like this" question
thats life
Just saying "hi" is better really,you wont come off creepy.
I only give a girl a compliment after Ive been talking to her for a while and I think shes cool.