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Should I?
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I've met a lovely guy at work. We met a few months ago whilst I was a temp there & I had to help his department with a few phonecalls. He always came to check if I was ok & if i'd had any messages & we'd end up having a good chat.
Anyway, I have just started working at the same place again & have seen him a few times & he always says hello & he's remembered my name but we never get chance to talk. As I have had a lack of male attention for a while now, I've gone all stalker-like & found out his last name on the internal system & it turns out he's on facebook.
Should I add him? or would I look like a total stalker?
Anyway, I have just started working at the same place again & have seen him a few times & he always says hello & he's remembered my name but we never get chance to talk. As I have had a lack of male attention for a while now, I've gone all stalker-like & found out his last name on the internal system & it turns out he's on facebook.
Should I add him? or would I look like a total stalker?
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Since it appears to be some time since you had at least a smalltalk conversation over solely saying hello to each other, I'd defo talk to him bit more first.
Because she barely knows him apart from one chat, a few months ago.
Ask him if he wants to have lunch sometime. You'd already chatted with him some time ago, it won't look odd.
Yeah, any way you could just drop him an email? You could do it on the pretense of wanting to get to know more people at work and see how it goes from there.
I'd leave adding him to your facebook until at least getting to know him.
poppi
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and just keep trying to bump into him and asking him for lunch/drink after work etc! hope it goes wel for you!!
Why not just approach him normally and strike up a conversation?