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Let's give them something to talk about...
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Quick synopsis of a long story. There's I guy who I'm friends with and quite like. We were texting last night, and I was with some (girl) friends catching up on news etc. His reply to my text saying we were gossiping was gossip is good, then my lovely friends managed to text him (accidently) 'let's give them something to talk about'. His reply was 'when?'.
Conversation then went round in circles for a bit before we arranged to meet up this afternoon. Now, I know he was drunk last night, but I don't know what to make of the situation....
Conversation then went round in circles for a bit before we arranged to meet up this afternoon. Now, I know he was drunk last night, but I don't know what to make of the situation....
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If he was drunk, you are best waiting to see if he mentions anything about texting you. If he doesnt and you are feeling brave then perhaps casually say, "so...what shall we do to cause gossip then?" or something similar.
But just be wary hun, you may end up just being a bit of fun and I dont want you to get hurt
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Are you meeting him today still?
It's a pretty casual arrangement, we're both in town for stuff so meeting him in the department after. He's a mate and a catch up is always good.
Dont dismiss it completely, just have your wits about you
Had been going to meet in the dept then find some sunshine. It's pissed it down most of today and his class over ran massively so missed each other completely!
Are you sad about that?
In a way think I'm relieved. Think the better plan is to continue as mates and see how things go from there, rather than trying to orchestrate something.
He kind of invited himself round for dinner last week and ended up staying over (although not that much happened), think we are now both clear that there's a little bit more than a standard friendship although not sure where it's going yet....