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What Should I do, its driving me crazy
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Hi all,
don't getting words from where to start, Ok so as u all may know i am an ex-Muslim and live in a country where 95% of population is Muslim.
Now there is girl with whom i have a chemistry and now the thing which has come in front of me is should i tell her about my faith situation? Problem is if i tell her i know what her answer but the biggest problem is i cannot tell anybody. If i announce this in public 1) there will be danger to my life :shocking: 2) i will not be able to get married to any girl in this country :crying:.
Now i got only once choice and that is not to tell her but she will came to know one day or the other and she will think i have lied with her, then our marriage may destroy somewhere in the middle, and by not telling her i will also have guilt inside of me.
I am just feeling very confused what to do? the more i am thinking about this the more i think of :banghead:.
:banghead::banghead::banghead:
don't getting words from where to start, Ok so as u all may know i am an ex-Muslim and live in a country where 95% of population is Muslim.
Now there is girl with whom i have a chemistry and now the thing which has come in front of me is should i tell her about my faith situation? Problem is if i tell her i know what her answer but the biggest problem is i cannot tell anybody. If i announce this in public 1) there will be danger to my life :shocking: 2) i will not be able to get married to any girl in this country :crying:.
Now i got only once choice and that is not to tell her but she will came to know one day or the other and she will think i have lied with her, then our marriage may destroy somewhere in the middle, and by not telling her i will also have guilt inside of me.
I am just feeling very confused what to do? the more i am thinking about this the more i think of :banghead:.
:banghead::banghead::banghead:
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any way.. is a girl really worth your life as you said it will be a danger to your life..
Actually the biggest problem is i would not get any girl here if i said this in public now the thing which is making me crazy is what should i do, if i don't tell any one, the guilt will kill me.
well i think that when it comes to "love" religion should not matter.. and i dont think you should feel guilty about not telling anyone? sorry if this sounds a bit harsh but its your business.