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hey there
this might sound like a reaaaally stupid thing but lately my boyfriend has just seemed really offish to me... it's like, when we're together we're great, but at the moment it's like we hardly ever see each other because he's usually out with his friends and drinking with them and stuff... and if i go out with sme of my friends he got really jealous cos there was this guy there that he didnt trust...
it's like i've done something wrong but i dont know what and i tried talking to himbut he said that there's nothing wrong, but i feel like this relationship is one sided and that i'm the one doing the organising to see each other.. i just dont think i have the strength to keep on doing this but i really love and cant see myself without him can anyone help pls??
this might sound like a reaaaally stupid thing but lately my boyfriend has just seemed really offish to me... it's like, when we're together we're great, but at the moment it's like we hardly ever see each other because he's usually out with his friends and drinking with them and stuff... and if i go out with sme of my friends he got really jealous cos there was this guy there that he didnt trust...
it's like i've done something wrong but i dont know what and i tried talking to himbut he said that there's nothing wrong, but i feel like this relationship is one sided and that i'm the one doing the organising to see each other.. i just dont think i have the strength to keep on doing this but i really love and cant see myself without him can anyone help pls??
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Hopefully this isnt the case and just try be strong!
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You need to sit him down and talk it through, otherwise it will just gnaw away at you.
I dont want to worry you, but perhaps be prepared to hear something you dont like.
maybe i am just imagining and overreacting... i dont know i just get so mad with myself for doubting him yet the doubts are still there :banghead:
a talk is in need... although i'm not sure when we will next see each other... which makes this harder
I am confused sorry.
Do you mean you were friends before? Or that you hadnt actually become bf and gf until 2 months ago?
Yeah a talk is in need, I agree, but I worry that if you cant arrange to meet him for 30mins to discuss it you have serious problems hun.
yeah it does.
But I stick to my initial advice, you have to talk to him.
talk to your boyfriend...find out what is wrong...tell him how you feel
exactly what I was thinking...
Obviously only time will tell, hope for the best, but expect the worst.
All I can say is, if he's gonna cheat he'll cheat regardless so just try and be happy when you do see him.
thanks for all the comments and thoughts guys... you gave me alot to think about!!