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Advice- new college
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i started a new college in september and people were really nice but im not very confident and till i know people well & it may sound stupid but i still havent gone in the common room as i just get paranoid people are saying bad things about me
now , 3 months on i feel im ready to but its too late and people will think im weird if i just came in and started chatting so how do you think i should go about it?
i know some people but not well enough, would you find it weird that someone just comes in after 3 months or would you not notice?
now , 3 months on i feel im ready to but its too late and people will think im weird if i just came in and started chatting so how do you think i should go about it?
i know some people but not well enough, would you find it weird that someone just comes in after 3 months or would you not notice?
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I personally wouldn't notice. I'd just do my nosy for about 5minutes and carry on. It's not that massive a deal, just go in and enjoy the rest of your free time with folk in the common room. If it was someone else saying this to you you'd be as encouraging as possible because it's so minute an issue!
Just go in and have a good old chinwag.