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women playing "hard to get".???
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Do most women play hard to get at the start of a relationship??? I'm in the earlt days of a relationship and shes always at it!! I've to text her first and she writes back EXACTLY 15 minutes later everytime!! And she ALWAYS 15 mintues late!! maybe she just has a thing for 15 minutes!!:)
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Either she's playing hard to get, or she's hopelessly unorganised. Both are equally possible.
Me and my Boyfriend used to text a lot (I was still living with the ex so phonecalls were out of the question) but I used to sometimes get annoyed if he didn't respond quickly. Now that we've been together a while I don't tend to let it bother me unless he seems to be avoiding answering a question .
i usually text back straight away or take a while thinking of something to say or sometimes i forget to text back.
The other thing to consider is, maybe your message doesn't get to her instantly. I have lost count of the number of times I have sent a text and it didn't get there instantly. Maybe there is a bit of a delay either at your end or hers.
Seriously, dude, 15 minutes isn't that big a deal. If you want instant responses, why not phone her.
1) Delivery reports - so I know when it got there.
2) My capacity to say 'what're you up to?' so if she says 'i'm at work' she has an excuse...
they always text back the exact amount of time it took me to text back
& it gets really anoying if i read there text 2 hours or somthing after they sent it cause i was at work so couldnt check my phone or somthing cause then i know i'll have to wait 2 hours for their reply it drives me mental!