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Feeling slightly threatened by her new toy
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Hi all
Great site, been reading some of the posts and thought I would give my 2 cents worth of problems
Well its not a problem as such but I just wanted to see how other guys felt about this.
Ok so my GF and I wanted to spice up our sex life a bit so we went to ann summers and she picked out some huge rampant rabbit thing, I wasnt really that bothered but there was a little doubt in my mind as to whether she would use it alot in my absence as she has a high sex drive and I only see her a few times a week. We tried it out and she didnt really like it, end of I thought.
However we tried it again the other day and basically used it on her whilst she was lying on her front and she loved it. Now there were some thoughts that when thru my head with this
1. The thing is probably a little bit fatter than mine but mine is longer, the head is defo fatter - so i start getting a bit intimidated, jealous even of some rubber thing, lol
2. Whilst i'm using it on her from behind she seems to be loving it and because i'm beside her and looking at her face it feels like someone else is basically having sex with her whilst i'm wathching - again i'm getting jealous over a dildo, lol
3. Lastly as I said before I'm starting to get worries that she would use it on herself when I'm not there and my old chap wouldnt be as good anymore..that thing is pretty fat on the head side
so, I gather that i'm insecure about this but do you think I am being irrational with my thoughts or could you understand where i'm coming from.
(ps she said the real thing is better but as with all insecurities you never believe the other person if they tell you otherwise)
Great site, been reading some of the posts and thought I would give my 2 cents worth of problems
Well its not a problem as such but I just wanted to see how other guys felt about this.
Ok so my GF and I wanted to spice up our sex life a bit so we went to ann summers and she picked out some huge rampant rabbit thing, I wasnt really that bothered but there was a little doubt in my mind as to whether she would use it alot in my absence as she has a high sex drive and I only see her a few times a week. We tried it out and she didnt really like it, end of I thought.
However we tried it again the other day and basically used it on her whilst she was lying on her front and she loved it. Now there were some thoughts that when thru my head with this
1. The thing is probably a little bit fatter than mine but mine is longer, the head is defo fatter - so i start getting a bit intimidated, jealous even of some rubber thing, lol
2. Whilst i'm using it on her from behind she seems to be loving it and because i'm beside her and looking at her face it feels like someone else is basically having sex with her whilst i'm wathching - again i'm getting jealous over a dildo, lol
3. Lastly as I said before I'm starting to get worries that she would use it on herself when I'm not there and my old chap wouldnt be as good anymore..that thing is pretty fat on the head side
so, I gather that i'm insecure about this but do you think I am being irrational with my thoughts or could you understand where i'm coming from.
(ps she said the real thing is better but as with all insecurities you never believe the other person if they tell you otherwise)
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You can even get "cast your own vibrator" kits where you make a mould of your own penis and turn it into a vibrator!
You cant feel threatened if its a replica of your own one!
http://www.juicyjacsfunbox.com/cloneboy-cast-vibrator-p-55.html
I mean obviously shes not going to leave you for a vibrator, but still, your feelings are your feelings. Not everyones gonna be ok with it.
No vibrator is going to be able to give her the stimulation you can during your love making sessions, after all it cant kiss, lick, bite, hug, talk dirty or hug.
My vibrator is larger than my bloke but its not something I would compare at all, its only like you deciding to masturbate, you use your hand to stimulate the same sensations of having her around you and us ladies can use our hands too but sometimes its nice to have something inside you so that you can fantasise about the hot sex you had with your partner.
Personally whenever I want to get myself off I tend to think about my man and what I would like to be doing with him if he was around and previous steamy sessions.
I've being trying to make my mister twissel at the end to keep up with modern technology but I've decided its not worth the hassle, a vibe will never replace a man!!
after all your the one with her controlling it.
After all it cant hug her, kiss her etc.
my bf tried something on me and loved the fact he could control it, teasing etc
1. A toy can't kiss
2. A toy can't cuddle
3. A toy can't whisper sweet nothings in her ear
4. A toy can't make her breakfast in bed
5. A toy can't take her out on the town
6. A toy can't do virtually EVERYTHING a boyfriend can do
A toy is an aid, not a substitute.
If it could do all those things, we'd be finished.
I heard that the new model for 2008 comes with a built in cigarette dispenser! :thumb:
And it doesn't roll over after sex, fall asleep and snore.
I have RR and my other half loves using it on me.:thumb: