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I know that everyone is different, but I suppose I would like opinions about how long you should wait in a relationship. I would like to get to know the person first, but would that put a guy off? I know this is very different for guys. Would a guy get fed up waiting, or if they really liked a girl enough, would they wait for her? What are your opinions. I have been thinking about this a lot as I find it very difficult to get into a realtionship and am starting to worry if this is the problem.
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Don't be bullied into sex, but don't wait for weeks because "he might be put off" if you really want to jump him now.
There's no magic formula for how long you wait. We had sex first and then discussed the relationship afterwards, and we've been together for over six years now.
Like the others have said, if he's decent, he'll wait
Sums it up right there. As with all things, do it when you're prepared and ready.
Personally I enjoy sex too much and have no restraint so a week into a rel is about the longest I ever manage to last
I have never been with a guy as I have never had relationship beyond 3 weeks, not sure if the former causes the latter or the latter causes the former (if you see what I mean!)