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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
Well hear it is, with the idea of creating something in the region of a database: ladies, what is it REALLY that makes a man attractive, and do you actually fall for any chat up lines?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well I personally like a man with that very sharp chin. Umm like Chandler Bimg from FRIENDS .I also like a bloke who can laugh at his mistakes and keep up with me in bed!
    Anyway i think it all comes down to personality. If u have not got a sense of humour I would not fall for u even if u did have a masculin chin!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Personally I think it all starts with his face. Well of course he has to be cute(by MY standards not my friends or family), but if his face doesn't show a sort of confident glow I tend not to fall for him. In those cases I end up just being his friend. After I check for that confident glow I always go right to the personality. It doesn't matter how cute you are to me or the world if he acts like an @$$ then I get turned off automatically.
    L.R.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The things I look for in a man, are a good smile, a sense of humour, his hands, and how he smells. I know this sounds strange, but there is definatly something very sexy about a mans hands and wrists. They also have to be an absolute trojan in bed too!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think women find confidence attractive, which is probably why I'm STILL single
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    BMW, Awww, nevermind!
    Actually, I know a lot of girls who go for the shy type, so all is not lost! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    C'est pour mon usage personnel, Officier!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A few things that attract me in a lad:

    1. First impression is important. He should be reasonably attractive and well-dressed (Personally I fall for tall blond lads in V-neck jumpers wearing the Cool Water aftershave :-) Umm!
    2. Sense of humour is very important. Someone sombre and thick doesn't stand a chance
    3. Individuality is cool. When a bloke is different it's a real turn-on!
    4. Even the most daft chat-up line may work if afterwards he shows to be interesting and polite in a conversation

    Real turn-offs:

    1. Being too loud
    2. Drinking to the point of unconsciousness (Urgh!!!)
    3. A greedy bloke is the worst nightmare. You can be dying from thirst and he'll pretend he doesn't notice and never buy you a drink.
    4.Being rough & pushy. Lads, you won't pull a descent girl by grabbing her ass on the way to the toilet. You are more likely to annoy her. Only sluts fall for this kind of "attention"
    5. Never show off! Girls hate it.

    Well, there are a few other things like bad breath, and daft tattoos etc etc, you all know them. :-))

    But just remember if you are a nice person and genuinely interested in a girl, we can forget and forgive a lot of things :-)


    [This message has been edited by Anele (edited 16-08-2000).]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A person has to be themselves, and not act up to some image.
    They have to be funny and smell nice!
    I like it when lads wear Ralph Lauren Polo Sport - it does funny things to my hormones <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Never show off...

    But I take it just being quite and contributing occaisionaly to a conversation wont do anything, cos girls will never notice you. So where's the fine line... you can't be too loud and roudy, you can't be quite and you can't showoff.

    What can you be?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    Never show off...

    But I take it just being quite and contributing occaisionaly to a conversation wont do anything, cos girls will never notice you. So where's the fine line... you can't be too loud and roudy, you can't be quite and you can't showoff.

    What can you be?


    Some lads just happen to know that border between being too loud and just witty with girls. :-))
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Katy!:
    ..... They also have to be an absolute trojan in bed too!

    Like someone easily deceived by a fake horse ?

    Luck
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's obvious that looks have an affect on a relationship, but personality is what really gets us going.
    Don't be afraid to be yourself because there will be someone who's compatible with you. If you put on an act and be all superficial then chances are you'll end up with the wrong lady.

    ARE YOU FEELING LIKE YOUR LIFE HAS BEEN PLANNED OUT FOR YOU?
    ARE YOU FEELING LIKE A SOCIAL TOOL WITHOUT A USE?
    SCREAM AT ME UNTIL MY EARS BLEED, I'M TAKING HEED JUST FOR YOU.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Personally I hate a boy who really loves him self. Ilike a good looking , funny flirty type boy. He would have to be interested in me and ring me when he says. When I first meet a boy I look for , nice eyes, smile, hair and bum.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Right!
    A good boy who looks like he could be bad. Get me?
    Big sense of humour
    Not too arrogant
    Not too toned (if im bangin someone who's too toned i may as well bang a brick wall!)
    Nice teeth.......not keen on a skinny ass...although its been done lol
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Anele wrote: »
    A few things that attract me in a lad:

    1. First impression is important. He should be reasonably attractive and well-dressed (Personally I fall for tall blond lads in V-neck jumpers wearing the Cool Water aftershave :-) Umm!
    2. Sense of humour is very important. Someone sombre and thick doesn't stand a chance
    3. Individuality is cool. When a bloke is different it's a real turn-on!
    4. Even the most daft chat-up line may work if afterwards he shows to be interesting and polite in a conversation

    Real turn-offs:

    1. Being too loud
    2. Drinking to the point of unconsciousness (Urgh!!!)
    3. A greedy bloke is the worst nightmare. You can be dying from thirst and he'll pretend he doesn't notice and never buy you a drink.
    4.Being rough & pushy. Lads, you won't pull a descent girl by grabbing her ass on the way to the toilet. You are more likely to annoy her. Only sluts fall for this kind of "attention"
    5. Never show off! Girls hate it.

    Well, there are a few other things like bad breath, and daft tattoos etc etc, you all know them. :-))

    But just remember if you are a nice person and genuinely interested in a girl, we can forget and forgive a lot of things :-)


    [This message has been edited by Anele (edited 16-08-2000).]

    f***s sake u don't ask for much do u lol?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    BMW_M5 wrote: »
    I think women find confidence attractive, which is probably why I'm STILL single

    different women like different kinds of men
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    why are you bringing up such old threads??????
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