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Well hear it is, with the idea of creating something in the region of a database: ladies, what is it REALLY that makes a man attractive, and do you actually fall for any chat up lines?
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Anyway i think it all comes down to personality. If u have not got a sense of humour I would not fall for u even if u did have a masculin chin!
L.R.
Actually, I know a lot of girls who go for the shy type, so all is not lost! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
C'est pour mon usage personnel, Officier!
1. First impression is important. He should be reasonably attractive and well-dressed (Personally I fall for tall blond lads in V-neck jumpers wearing the Cool Water aftershave :-) Umm!
2. Sense of humour is very important. Someone sombre and thick doesn't stand a chance
3. Individuality is cool. When a bloke is different it's a real turn-on!
4. Even the most daft chat-up line may work if afterwards he shows to be interesting and polite in a conversation
Real turn-offs:
1. Being too loud
2. Drinking to the point of unconsciousness (Urgh!!!)
3. A greedy bloke is the worst nightmare. You can be dying from thirst and he'll pretend he doesn't notice and never buy you a drink.
4.Being rough & pushy. Lads, you won't pull a descent girl by grabbing her ass on the way to the toilet. You are more likely to annoy her. Only sluts fall for this kind of "attention"
5. Never show off! Girls hate it.
Well, there are a few other things like bad breath, and daft tattoos etc etc, you all know them. :-))
But just remember if you are a nice person and genuinely interested in a girl, we can forget and forgive a lot of things :-)
[This message has been edited by Anele (edited 16-08-2000).]
They have to be funny and smell nice!
I like it when lads wear Ralph Lauren Polo Sport - it does funny things to my hormones <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">!!
But I take it just being quite and contributing occaisionaly to a conversation wont do anything, cos girls will never notice you. So where's the fine line... you can't be too loud and roudy, you can't be quite and you can't showoff.
What can you be?
Some lads just happen to know that border between being too loud and just witty with girls. :-))
Like someone easily deceived by a fake horse ?
Luck
Don't be afraid to be yourself because there will be someone who's compatible with you. If you put on an act and be all superficial then chances are you'll end up with the wrong lady.
ARE YOU FEELING LIKE YOUR LIFE HAS BEEN PLANNED OUT FOR YOU?
ARE YOU FEELING LIKE A SOCIAL TOOL WITHOUT A USE?
SCREAM AT ME UNTIL MY EARS BLEED, I'M TAKING HEED JUST FOR YOU.
A good boy who looks like he could be bad. Get me?
Big sense of humour
Not too arrogant
Not too toned (if im bangin someone who's too toned i may as well bang a brick wall!)
Nice teeth.......not keen on a skinny ass...although its been done lol
f***s sake u don't ask for much do u lol?
different women like different kinds of men