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i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 months and we are both 16. i care for him deeply but we haven't had sex yet. is this unusual? do most people have sex after a relationship this long? he a virgin but i'm not. please help.
luv, the angel xxx
luv, the angel xxx
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Certainly at your age, I would take it slowly. There is still a lot of prejudice around, meaning that a boy "must" be experienced and a girl becomes "used goods" or a "slag". It should not be that way, but it is always good to keep that in mind before you give in and go the whole way.
I am sure that you do not want to become a locker room statistic.
Men are taught to apologise for their weaknesses, women for their strengths
Bad Boy Pete
yeah but it really put me off and changed my outlook on relationships, i'd known this guy like 10 minutes and he was in my knickers i felt so out of control.