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Get a room.
It's hard to say whether these feelings arose from childhood or not because I did receive some occasional spankings (all deserved) as a child possibly from the age of around 5 or so. The last one I got and probably the most memorable was from my Mum when I was 11. I had been foolishly playing with magnifying glasses and fire. I remember Mum giving me a calm but firm lecture followed by me removing my shorts whereupon Mum took me across her knees, lowered my undies and gave me about 20 moderately hard handsmacks across my bare bottom. After that spanking all I really felt (apart from a warm soreness over my bottom which diminished after 30 mins or so!!) was sorrow for what I'd done and upsetting Mum, redemption and no longer feeling guilty.
Despite a few memories of childhood chastisements I can't say that this attributed to a fetish because I don't ever recall thinking spanking as sexual until maybe 16 or 17. Another thing is that after the spanking when I was 11 I only ever felt emotions as described above. Also I've read somewhere that people who have never been spanked are nearly just as likely as people that have been spanked during childhood to acquire a spanking fetish.
So the question is why or how do we get spanking fetishes?
Oh yeah, it's great. Happily my boyfriend loves doing it so it's all good.
Nothing weird about that, not into spanking but love to scratch and pull hair as well as bite when doggy or on top with her face down and she loves having her boobs slapped hard when she is on top... I presume this is normal eh?
Ouch! babyworms. Boob slapping sounds though it may be painful, though.:eek: Surely you mean gentle slaps on your boobies.??