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Threesomes - but not as we know it...
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The question is, are you and your missus both fulfilled or do you both have different ideas on where this could go?
Don't fall in the trap of having to make every sexual experience a kinky explosion!
My advice on that score is tread carefully, given your reaction. i would especially be careful about involving a friend.
I have to ask why you were surprised, or found it difficult, when she got into it. What did you expect? that she would just lie there quietly?
The fact that she is affectionate with you shows to me that she can separate sexual expression from love, though.
That's a very complicated area for women......women, naturally develop feelings over a period of time which can open a whole can of worms! Though there are exceptions to the rule.
But yeah, it is worth remembering that you must both go into this accepting that if one of you says "enough" then enough it must be.
Someone you cant trust but who isn't part of your daily life......
And agreed on the code word :yes: If you're role playing etc things can get carried away when not wanted as "stop" and "no" are often used in scenarios.