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Should I worry?
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I might be being stupid here but I recently found out that my boyfriend of a year is flirting with girls on the internet.... I really don't know whether to worry about this and confront him or to just let it be if its not a serious issue. Please give me advice on what you would do in my situation!
Thanks ali
Thanks ali
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My thoughts exactly.
he made your trust waver by listing himself as single, explain that to him
if its bothering you i would definately bring it up, no point in letting it fester
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Very good idea. But yes- DEFINITELY confront him. If you cant trust him, you've got no relationship. It could all be a misunderstanding but you need to know either way.
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or "I cant believe you dont trust me" - ie youre a bad person for catching me out.
:yes:
one of her friends DID fin his profile so she wasnt snooping anyway
UNTIL
she logged in as him and read his messages
so she hasnt really got an excuse to give him, she'll have to come clean