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An Anul Sex Question
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My wife and I have sort of stumbled onto having anul sex for the first time today. I have always played around down there on her with my finger but that is where it mostly stayed. Well today we were fooling around and we started to "spoon" and the next thing is that we slowly started to have anul sex. We didn't use Lube or anything but it was slow at first. She also had no signs of pain as well. Now is this a normal thing to happen? My wife is very faithful and I know that this was our first time. Also I did not use a condom and I have read everywhere to use a condom. Neither one of us have any STDs and we are very clean people. What are the risks of doing this bare and can I get any infections/diseases? Thanks
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My boyfriend was amazed it was so easy - he kept asking if I was SURE it was my first time. I was like...:chin: it's probably the sort of thing I would have noticed a guy doing to be honest...
not sure about the infection thing, the only thing I know for sure is that you shouldn't vary from anal to normal without washing in between.
Lol, yah I had to ask her a few time if we really had done anul and not just normal sex in a new position. It really blew my mind at how if all seemed to flow and she was lucky to have no soreness. I have always fantasized about it but read so many things that scared the hell out of me about it (like females being hurt and stuff) but it just really worked for us in that moment.
That is very good advise, as I am sure we never would have but I am not sure if I would have thought about that specifically.
and we used a bit of lube aswel but probably not enough.
tried it a second time and same thing happened, i guess my arse was just not made for anal hehe
Looks like your arse shall remain your exit
i'm now kinda scared that mine was...
I've learnt mine actually is! but only with guys who have small dicks hehe so they are in an advantage sometimes! x
For those of us with an anal fetish....ohhhh yes!
I wud wear a condom when you do it next - im not sure but i wud assume it can lead to an infection for you. And definately wash between!!! ive been there and its rather uncomfortable!!
I disagree.
Personally, I think due to the fact it is still 'taboo' amongst certain people, it holds that extra attraction. Also, you see the girls on the porno films really 'getting off' on it, so you wanna give it a go and see if your girl really gets off on it too...
Guys do talk though, and *some* lads seem to have this as the first question they ask when they found out you've slept with somebody new...
hello
several have mentioned that you should wash between anul and vaginal sex.
What type of infection can not doing that cause?? Would it affect the woman or man.
anyone any experience of infections.
the reason I ask is I am trying to solve my irritating pee tube that I have posted about earlier.......
many thanks