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I have wanted to try anal sex for awhile now, but I think of a way to bring it up to my partner. I just dont want to just blurt it out. I know that one of her friends has had a bad experience with it so I'm not so sure that she'll go for it. Can anybody just give me anything?
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Just do the same with your g/f and see what her reaction is, even suggest a couple of other things first just so you can see what she says.
She might not be into it, but theres no harm in bringing it up and seeing what her reaction is, Good luck:)
Why not just buy a strap-on dildo, produce it during sex and ask her to use it on you?
Good point. You didn't find it a good experience then, Twinkle? I'll make a mental note never to try it ...
She probs won't judge by her friend - I mean, I've heard some pretty nasty anal stories and while I've never tried it, if my guy ever wanted to I'd be open to experimentation
As for suggesting it, I agree with the others that you should make it part of a sexy conversation about what you want to do to each other...
Eh, I've never tried it but have heard stories about anal beads/penises being pulled out too fast and creating a suction that basically pulled shit out with it not nice. Unless my bf really wants to try it I'm quite happy without risking that kinda thing! Also dontcha have to be really careful about cross-infection between anus and vagina? Just seems a lot of effort, possible pain, and fuss for something that could end messily. That's just what I've heard