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Yeah, it can be a bit 'embarrassing'... But that doesn't mean it's not good
Looking them in the eye... Well, the thing is, your eyes are usually elsewhere!
Well there's a surprise! He's not gonna tell you "Oh, it was fucking ace having some other bird's arse grinding in my face" is he?
It is VERY frustrating - especially if your twated.
It is frustrating, which is why I rarely go in the places that do private dances - keeps the temptation/frustration to a minimum.
Don't usually go for a wank afterwards - usually utterly wankered and see if I can't get hold of one of my fuck buddies.
It's usually quite funny sitting there on the Tube thinking "Why aren't all these girls taking their clothes off.......?!"
I think there would be a fair few people on here that would *still* take exception at their bloke *ever* having enjoyed a lap-dance... :yeees:
Why not? It wouldn't bother me, and he knows it wouldn't bother me.
I think you are in the minority with this one.
And tbh...if you were paranoid about a bloke going behind your back and pulling, there'd be less chance of that in a lapdancing club...less girls, and none of them he can touch anyway!!
In terms of boyfriends going, it doesn't bother me at all. They can fill their boots if they're into that kind of thing. My ex and his mates were mad about lapdancing clubs and it didn't effect our relationship or sex life. At the time I thought it reflected a bit sadly on him, but each to their own and I never tried to stop him or felt insecure about it. Our sex life was fine (well, it was alright, but that wasn't the fault of the lapdancers
My fella now has been there, done all that and then some. So he's not really interested anymore which is good because I have to say I feel a bit differently about it now that the man in my life has changed from being simply the boyfriend figure into father of my children. It makes things seem a bit different, rightly or wrongly.
If he had a private dance i'd be a bit annoyed - because i can do it for free haha.
Lesbian
She;s always got tales of slimy twats, but at then she got stories of really interesting blokes she's met.
I enjoy going to lap dancing clubs - I think they're fuckign good fun. I think the majority of blokes see it for what is is to be honest, just a good bit of entertainment. It's nice being approached by girls asking you if they can take their kit off for you.
Any bloke that says he insn't into girls taking their clothes off for them is either gay or reallu shy or a liar.